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Di Indonesia nama Allah telah lama di gunakan oleh penganut2 kristien atau katholik di sana.Alasan sejak dulu lagi Allah telah di gunakan sebagai nama Tuhan. Sekarang di Malaysia pula orang2 Kristien masuk gereja bukan semata2 nak sembahyang dan berdoa tetapi mereka sibuk berbincang untuk menggunakan nama Allah, Maha Suci , Maha Esa sebagai pengganti nama My LOrd , My God dan tah apa2. Orang Kristien marah Pak Lah ,bukan saja menghalang kebebasan bersuara mahupun beragama (Islam masuk Kristien) nak pakai nama Allah untuk tuhan mereka juga dihalang. http://www.chanlilian.net/2007/12/23/wth-gods-name-also-want-to-control/ ALHAMDULILLAH orang kristien baru tersedar bahawa Allah lah yang patut mereka sembah dari sejak zaman nabi Adam alaihissallam lagi. Kalau bukan kerana mereka menganggap nabi Isa itu anak tuhan sudah tentu mereka juga akan mempercayai nabi Muhammad SAW sebagai Rasul yang terakhir.Tetapi sayangnya ia nya tidak berlaku demikian. Tambahan pula sekarang orang Islam sendiri dengan senang hati dan gembira mengecam dunia Islam dan memburuk2kan Islam. Maka pertanyaan saya kepada orang kristien Malaysia dah berkurun dok panggil Oh MY Lord, KENAPA SEKARANG baru nak panggil ALLAH tuhan Yg Esa dan Maha Suci ...dan lepas tu BOLEH TAK tutup aurat macam Sisters/nuns kerana itu juga ajaran kristien .Jangan hanya sekadar propaganda nak menunjukkan kamu kristien lebih bagus dan akhirnya mengaku bahawa Tuhan Allah hanya untuk Kristien atau kita hanya ada Satu TUHAN (memang Benar Tuhan yang meanjadikan semua makhluk di bumi dan di langit) tetapi tuhan yang kamu sembah adalah lain dari tuhan yang kami sembah...kau dengan agama kau dan kami dengan agama kami!!!! Silakan panggil apa saja nama tuhan yang kamu mahu panggil tetapi jangan ingat hati kamu BERSIH dan niat kamu IKHLAS kerana kamu Kristien ikut2an!
Found this link ; http://www.beconvinced.com/en/main.phpI came from a purely Hindu family where we were always taught to regard ourselves (i.e. women) as beings who were eventually to be married off, have children and serve the husband - whether he was kind or not. Other than this I found that there were a lot of things which really oppressed women, such as: • If a woman was widowed, she would always have to wear a white sari (costume), eat vegetarian meals, cut her hair short, and never re-marry. • The bride always had to pay the dowry (bridal money) to the husband's family. And the husband could ask for anything, irrespective of whether the bride would have difficulty paying it. • Not only that, if after marriage she was not able to pay the full dowry she would be both emotionally and physically tortured. She could end up being a victim of "kitchen death" where the husband, or both the mother-in-law and the husband, try to set fire to the wife while she is cooking or is in the kitchen, to make it look like an accidental death. More and more of these incidents are taking place. The daughter of a friend of my own father met the same fate last year! • In addition to all this, men in Hinduism are treated literally as gods. In one of the religious Hindu celebrations, unmarried girls pray for and worship an idol representing a particular god (Shira) so that they may have husbands like him. Even my own mother had asked me to do this. This made me see that the Hindu religion, based on superstitions and things that have no manifest proof and were merely traditions, which oppressed women, could not be right. Subsequently, when I came to England to study, I thought that at least this was a country, which gave equal rights to men and women, and did not oppress them. We all had the freedom to do as we liked, I thought. Well, as I started to meet people, make new friends, learn about this new society, and go to all the places my friends went to in order to "socialize" (bars, dance halls, etc.), I realized that this "equality" was not so true in practice as it was in theory. Outwardly, women were seen to be given equal rights in education, work, and so forth, but in reality women were still oppressed in a different, subtler way. When I went with my friends to the places they hung out at, I found everybody interested to talk to me and I thought that was normal. But it was only later that I realized how naïve I was, and recognized what these people were really looking for. I soon began to feel uncomfortable, as if I was not myself: I had to dress in a certain way so that people would like me, and had to talk in a certain way to please them. I soon found that I was feeling more and more uncomfortable, less and less myself, yet I could not get out. Everybody was saying they were enjoying themselves, but I don't call this enjoyment. I think women in this way of life are oppressed; they have to dress in a certain way in order to please men and appear more appealing, and also, talk in a certain way so people like them. During this time I had not thought about Islam, even though I had some Muslim acquaintances. But I felt I really had to do something, to find something that I would be happy and secure with, and would feel respectable. Something to believe in that is the right belief, because everybody has a belief that they live according to. If having fun by getting off with other people is someone's belief, they do this. If making money is someone's belief, they do everything to achieve this. If they believe drinking is one way to enjoy life then they do it. But I feel all this leads to nowhere; no one is truly satisfied, and the respect women are looking for is diminished in this way. In these days of so-called "equal rights", you are expected to have a boyfriend (or you're weird!) and to not be a virgin. So this is a form of oppression, even though some women do not realize it. When I came to Islam, it was obvious that I had finally found permanent security. A religion, a belief that was so complete and clear in every aspect of life. Many people have a misconception that Islam is an oppressive religion, where women are covered from head to toe, and are not allowed any freedom or rights. In fact, women in Islam are given more rights, and have been for the past 1400 years, compared to the only-recently rights given to non-Muslim women in some western and other societies. But there are, even now, societies where women are still oppressed, as I mentioned earlier in relation to Hindu women. Muslim women have the right to inheritance. They have the right to run their own trade and business. They have the full right to ownership, property, disposal over their wealth to which the husband has no right. They have the right to education, a right to refuse marriage as long as this refusal is according to reasonable and justifiable grounds. The Qur'an itself, which is the Word of God, contains many verses commanding men to be kind to their wives and stressing the rights of women. Islam has the right set of rules, because they are NOT made by men, but by God; hence it is a perfect religion. Quite often Muslim women are asked why they are covered from head to toe, and are told that this is oppression - it is not. In Islam, marriage is an important part of life, the making of the society. Therefore, a woman should not go around showing herself to everybody, only her husband. Even the man is not allowed to show certain parts of his body to no one but his wife. In addition, God has commanded Muslim women to cover themselves for their modesty: "O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) over their bodies (when outdoors). That is most convenient that they could be known as such (i.e. decent and chaste) and not molested." (Qur'an 33:59) If we look around at any other society, we find that in the majority of cases women are attacked and molested because of how they are dressed. Another point I'd like to comment on is that the rules and regulation laid down in Islam by God, do not apply just to women but to men also. There is no intermingling and free mixing between men and women for the benefit of both. Whatever God commands is right, wholesome, pure and beneficial to mankind. There is no doubt about that. A verse in the Qur'an explains this concept clearly: «"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and protect their private parts (i.e. from indecency, illegal sexual acts, etc.); that will make for greater purity for them. And God is well aware of what they do. And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and protect their private parts (from indecency, illegal sexual intercourse, etc.); and that they should not display their beauty and ornaments . . . "» (Qur'an, Surah Al-Nur 24:31) When I put on my hijab (veil), I was really happy to do it. In fact, I really wanted to do it. When I put on the hijab, I felt a great sense of satisfaction and happiness because I had obeyed God's command. And I was so happy with the good and blessings that came with it. I have felt secure and protected. In fact people respect me more for it. I could really see the difference in their behavior towards me. Finally, I'd like to say that I had accepted Islam not blindly, or under any compulsion. In the Qur'an itself there is a verse "Let there be no compulsion in religion". I accepted Islam with conviction. I have seen, been there, done that, and seen both sides of the story. I know and have experienced what the other side is like, and I know that I have done the right thing. Islam does not oppress women, but rather Islam liberates them and gives them the respect they deserve. Islam is the religion God has chosen for the whole of mankind. Those who accept it are truly liberated from the chains and shackles of mankind, whose rulings and legisI came from a purely Hindu family where we were always taught to regard ourselves (i.e. women) as beings who were eventually to be married off, have children and serve the husband - whether he was kind or not. Other than this I found that there were a lot of things which really oppressed women, such as: • If a woman was widowed, she would always have to wear a white sari (costume), eat vegetarian meals, cut her hair short, and never re-marry. • The bride always had to pay the dowry (bridal money) to the husband's family. And the husband could ask for anything, irrespective of whether the bride would have difficulty paying it. • Not only that, if after marriage she was not able to pay the full dowry she would be both emotionally and physically tortured. She could end up being a victim of "kitchen death" where the husband, or both the mother-in-law and the husband, try to set fire to the wife while she is cooking or is in the kitchen, to make it look like an accidental death. More and more of these incidents are taking place. The daughter of a friend of my own father met the same fate last year! • In addition to all this, men in Hinduism are treated literally as gods. In one of the religious Hindu celebrations, unmarried girls pray for and worship an idol representing a particular god (Shira) so that they may have husbands like him. Even my own mother had asked me to do this. This made me see that the Hindu religion, based on superstitions and things that have no manifest proof and were merely traditions, which oppressed women, could not be right. Subsequently, when I came to England to study, I thought that at least this was a country, which gave equal rights to men and women, and did not oppress them. We all had the freedom to do as we liked, I thought. Well, as I started to meet people, make new friends, learn about this new society, and go to all the places my friends went to in order to "socialize" (bars, dance halls, etc.), I realized that this "equality" was not so true in practice as it was in theory. Outwardly, women were seen to be given equal rights in education, work, and so forth, but in reality women were still oppressed in a different, subtler way. When I went with my friends to the places they hung out at, I found everybody interested to talk to me and I thought that was normal. But it was only later that I realized how naïve I was, and recognized what these people were really looking for. I soon began to feel uncomfortable, as if I was not myself: I had to dress in a certain way so that people would like me, and had to talk in a certain way to please them. I soon found that I was feeling more and more uncomfortable, less and less myself, yet I could not get out. Everybody was saying they were enjoying themselves, but I don't call this enjoyment. I think women in this way of life are oppressed; they have to dress in a certain way in order to please men and appear more appealing, and also, talk in a certain way so people like them. During this time I had not thought about Islam, even though I had some Muslim acquaintances. But I felt I really had to do something, to find something that I would be happy and secure with, and would feel respectable. Something to believe in that is the right belief, because everybody has a belief that they live according to. If having fun by getting off with other people is someone's belief, they do this. If making money is someone's belief, they do everything to achieve this. If they believe drinking is one way to enjoy life then they do it. But I feel all this leads to nowhere; no one is truly satisfied, and the respect women are looking for is diminished in this way. In these days of so-called "equal rights", you are expected to have a boyfriend (or you're weird!) and to not be a virgin. So this is a form of oppression, even though some women do not realize it. When I came to Islam, it was obvious that I had finally found permanent security. A religion, a belief that was so complete and clear in every aspect of life. Many people have a misconception that Islam is an oppressive religion, where women are covered from head to toe, and are not allowed any freedom or rights. In fact, women in Islam are given more rights, and have been for the past 1400 years, compared to the only-recently rights given to non-Muslim women in some western and other societies. But there are, even now, societies where women are still oppressed, as I mentioned earlier in relation to Hindu women. Muslim women have the right to inheritance. They have the right to run their own trade and business. They have the full right to ownership, property, disposal over their wealth to which the husband has no right. They have the right to education, a right to refuse marriage as long as this refusal is according to reasonable and justifiable grounds. The Qur'an itself, which is the Word of God, contains many verses commanding men to be kind to their wives and stressing the rights of women. Islam has the right set of rules, because they are NOT made by men, but by God; hence it is a perfect religion. Quite often Muslim women are asked why they are covered from head to toe, and are told that this is oppression - it is not. In Islam, marriage is an important part of life, the making of the society. Therefore, a woman should not go around showing herself to everybody, only her husband. Even the man is not allowed to show certain parts of his body to no one but his wife. In addition, God has commanded Muslim women to cover themselves for their modesty: "O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) over their bodies (when outdoors). That is most convenient that they could be known as such (i.e. decent and chaste) and not molested." (Qur'an 33:59) If we look around at any other society, we find that in the majority of cases women are attacked and molested because of how they are dressed. Another point I'd like to comment on is that the rules and regulation laid down in Islam by God, do not apply just to women but to men also. There is no intermingling and free mixing between men and women for the benefit of both. Whatever God commands is right, wholesome, pure and beneficial to mankind. There is no doubt about that. A verse in the Qur'an explains this concept clearly: «"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and protect their private parts (i.e. from indecency, illegal sexual acts, etc.); that will make for greater purity for them. And God is well aware of what they do. And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and protect their private parts (from indecency, illegal sexual intercourse, etc.); and that they should not display their beauty and ornaments . . . "» (Qur'an, Surah Al-Nur 24:31) When I put on my hijab (veil), I was really happy to do it. In fact, I really wanted to do it. When I put on the hijab, I felt a great sense of satisfaction and happiness because I had obeyed God's command. And I was so happy with the good and blessings that came with it. I have felt secure and protected. In fact people respect me more for it. I could really see the difference in their behavior towards me. Finally, I'd like to say that I had accepted Islam not blindly, or under any compulsion. In the Qur'an itself there is a verse "Let there be no compulsion in religion". I accepted Islam with conviction. I have seen, been there, done that, and seen both sides of the story. I know and have experienced what the other side is like, and I know that I have done the right thing. Islam does not oppress women, but rather Islam liberates them and gives them the respect they deserve. Islam is the religion God has chosen for the whole of mankind. Those who accept it are truly liberated from the chains and shackles of mankind, whose rulings and legislating necessitates nothing but the oppression of one group by another and the exploitation and oppression of one sex by the other. This is not the case in Islam, which truly liberates women and gives them an individuality not given by any other authority. Sister Noor has been a Muslim for over a year and a half and is currently in her second year of undergraduate study in the Department of Biology at University of Essex, U. K. Author : Sister Noor r
HINDRAF Hindu Rights Action Force No. 135-3-A, Jalan Toman 7, Kemayan Square, 70200 Seremban, Negeri Sembilan Malaysia. Tel : 06-7672995/6 Fax: 06-7672997 Email waytha@hotmail.com 15.11.2007 The Rt. Hon. Gordon Brown Prime Minister of the United Kindom 10 Downing Street, Fax: +442079250918 London, URGENT SW1A 2AA Dear Sirs, RE: 1. COMMONWEALTH ETHNIC INDIAN PEACE LOVING SUBJECTS IN MALAYSIA PERSECUTED BY GOVERNMENT BACKED ISLAMIC EXTREMIST VIOLENT ARMED TERRORIST WHO LAUNCHED A PRE DAWN VIOLENT ARMED ATTACK AND DESTROYED THE KG JAWA MARIAMAN HINDU TEMPLE AT 4.00 A.M THIS MORNING (15.11.2007). 2. APPEAL FOR U.K TO MOVE EMERGENCY U.N RESOLUTION CONDEMNING “ETHNIC CLEANSING” IN MALAYSIA. 3. APPEAL TO REFER MALAYSIA TO THE WORLD COURT AND INTERNATIONAL CRIMINAL COURT FOR CRIMES AGAINST IT’S OWN ETHNIC MINORITY INDIANS. We refer to the above critical matters in Malaysia but which generally gets the least attention locally even by the Opposition parties, NGO’s, the Malaysian Human Rights Commission and the media for this community is generally regarded as politically insignificant, do not draw local or international funding and are deemed not pressworthy. To the contrary the Malaysian government has successfully projected itself to the world as a modern Islamic thinking country which is not true. The ethnic minority Indians in Malaysia were brought in to Malaysia by the British some 200 over years ago. Since independence in 1957 the Malaysian Indians have been permanently colonialised by the Islamic fundamentalist and Malay chauvinists UMNO led Malaysian government. Among the recent atrocities committed by this government are as follows:- 1.100 over Indians were slashed and killed by the UMNO controlled Malaysian government in the Kampung Medan mini genocide. Despite numerous appeals, the Malaysian Human Rights Commission has refused to hold a Public Inquiry. The UMNO controlled Malaysian courts struck off a victim’s public interest civil suit for a Public Inquiry to be held without even the said UMNO controlled government having to file in their defence. The UMNO controlled Attorney General and the Inspector General of Police refused to investigate and / or initiate an inquest into the death of at least six Indians in this tragedy despite. 2. Every week one person at average is killed in a shot to kill policy and in every 2 weeks one person is killed in police custody. About 60% of these victims are Indians though they form only 8% of the Malaysian population. 3. In every three weeks one Hindu temple is demolished in Malaysia. The latest being the demolishment of the Mariaman temple in Padang Jawa, Shah Alam, Selangor early this morning (15.11.2007) and the next being the (Mutaiya) Hindu temple in Sungai Petani scheduled for the 29.11.2007. A violent armed pre down attack at 4.00a.m this morning was launched by the UMNO controlled Malaysian government backed by about 600 police, riot police, Islamic extremist and armed terrorists which completely destroyed this temple. In an attack two weeks ago, uniformed police, riot police and city Council officers hurled rocks and attacked unarmed Hindu devotees with knives, sticks and iron rods. At least 20 Hindu devotees were seriously injured and 19 arrested including 4 of their United Kingdom trained lawyers in direct violation of Article 5 (Right to life) Article 8 (Equality) Article 11 (Freedom of Religion) Section 295 (defiling a place of worship), Section 296 (disturbing a religious assembly), 298A(causing racial disharmony) and Section 441(criminal trespass) of the Malaysian Penal Code. These authorities are plagued by an above the law mindset and in fact liberally take the law into their own hands. These atrocities however does not happen to almost all Islamic places of worship. Please visit www.policewatchmalaysia.com for further and better particulars. 4. State sponsored direct discrimination against the Indians in Public University intakes, Indian (Tamil) Schools, skills training institutes, civil service and private sector job opportunities, business and license opportunities and in almost all other aspects of daily life. Despite our hundreds of letters, appeals and pleas to the Malaysian King and Sultans, the Prime Minister, Attorney General, Inspector General of Police, Ministers, Chief Ministers and the latest being our letters to the Prime Minister dated 29.10.2007 and 30.10.2007 and to the Attorney General dated 1.11.2007 the Malaysian authorities are only proceeding with greater ferocity and with impunity with very little regard for the Federal Constitution and laws of Malaysia. So please help us. CONCLUSION We fear that this peace loving Indian community of Tamil origin having been pushed to the corner and the persecution getting worse by the day may be forced to into terrorism in a matter of time as what has happened to the Sri Lankan Tamils. APPEAL On our part we are committed to a peaceful and lawful struggle and pray and appeal that the Government of the United Kingdom:- 1. Moves an emergency United Nations resolution condemning these state sponsored atrocities and persecutions of Malaysian Indians in Malaysia. 2. Refers Malaysia to the World Court and the International Criminal Court for Crimes against it’s own ethnic minority Indians Thank You, Yours Faithfully P.Uthayakumar Legal Adviser
mula2 BERSIH kemudian HINDRAF, then what........Why? I just need good answers especially from good leaders........cos good answers will shut me down not shoot me down!
 Saya rasa banyak orang dah tahu bahawa melalui internet kita boleh download filem2 terbaru yang masih lagi di tayangkan di pawagam2. Contohnya baru2 ni anak saya download filem Tebuan kuning tu dan 30 days apa tah dan lain2. Kagum betul dunia teknologi ni ,nowonder anak my sister yang baru 6 tahun pun dah di ajar melayar internet .Fav web dia mesti lah Barbie dan adik laki2nya yang baru nak masuk 4 tahun pun dah pandai suruh kakak nya search 'Cars' since dia masih belum pandai mengeja.Salah satu sebabnya in 20 yrs time katanya dia tak tahu what kind of worlds anak2nya akan tempuhi.Ok nak cakap pasal filem. Ada satu filem ni memang bagus dan menarik kalau dlam internet dapat rating A dan tajuknya ialah PERFUMe. Ia berkenaan minyak wangi tapi dalm filem kata tentang pembunuhan tapi tak syok le ,terkeluar dari tajuk yang saya nak cakap. Saya ni jenis suka tenguk movies yang bagus2 saja kalau tak mungkin tak fokus sangat, anak saya rekemen movie ini dan saya pun tenguklah....oh ya , saya juga tenguk drama Kami yang pernah di tayangkan dalam TV tetapi tak pernah saya tonton.Itu pun menarik juga .Senang cakap ia lebih bagus dari cerita Indonesia 3 Naga dan Cinta pertama yang membosankan!Saya dah mula gemar dengan pesaing2 filem Indonesia di TV kita ni apabila pelakun2 muda yang cantik dan kacak juga boleh berlakun kerana wajah juga satu tarikan yang besar dan dapat menamatkan andaian bahawa pelakun2 Indonesia atau Filipina saja yang cantik. OK Berbalik pada tajuk asal.Bila saya tenguk cerita Perfume apa yang terpancul dari mulut saya ialah "Laa ,kenapa orang Melayu tak buat filem macam ni ?" Alasan saya kerana ia adalah cerita mitos kita seperti MInyAK SENYONYONG atau MINYAK DAGU yang boleh buat orang tergila2 kan si pemakai! Dan di sebalik tu dia juga terpaksa membunuh kerana mahu mengambil bau atau aroma badan mangsanya. Samakan macam minyak dagu yang terpaksa di ambil dari mayat, betul tak? Saya terkagum dengan jalan ceritanya yang bagus dan boleh saya kaitkan dengan kehidupan sebenar.Akhirnya kita tak marah padanya kerana membunuh sebab terlalu obses dengan pencariannya. Dia juga telah berjaya membuktikan sesuatu pada manusia sejagat kuasa 'Bau Badan', teringat kata seorang pak cik yang dah jadi arwah...dia belum biasa dengan bau badan laki2....saya terpaksa setuju dengan statement begini. Kata2 penutupnya yang lebih kurang bermaksud begini ....semua yang dilaku kan tidak salah demi CINTA. Dan saya tidak dapat setuju dengan ayat ini......
Sebelum saya perpanjangkan pendapat saya di sini saya nak semua orang tahu tujuan saya tulis ni bukan nak membantah kerana saja suka2 membantah atau saja2 nak cari gaduh dengan orang yang lain pendapat dari saya.Baik dia girl friend saya ke, boy friend saya ke atau suami saya ke saya tulis ni atas perasaan saya dan cerita2 yang banyak saya pungut sana sikit dan sini sikit. Topik soalan ini berkisar pada soalan favourite saya iaitu POLIGAMI. Dalam blog Mardhiah dia mengajukan satu soalan kepada Ustaz tersebut "apakah pengorbanan paling besar bagi seorang isteri?" Saya ingat kot ustaz tu nak cakap pasal kehebatan isteri nya bekorban masa remajanya atau yang masih dara tu,tentang cita2nya yang terputus di tengah jalan,tentang hilangnya kebebasannya bergaul dengan teman2nya, keluarganya yang dahulu sangat rapat atau pekerjaannya yang berpotensi untuk naik pangkat.Tentang kesakitan melahirkan zuriat2nya.Tetapi saya kecewa sebab dia bercakap pasal kesanggupan seorang isteri berkongsi barangnya atau berkongsi dirinya. Mana lagi berat pengorbanan seorang isteri sejak remaja melucutkan segala hak miliknya secara total lalu menyerah kesemuanya pada lelaki yang bernama suami jika dibandingkan dengan berkongsi orang yang memilikinya? Apakah yang di rindui oleh seorang isteri sepanjang hayat bersama suaminya? Apakah semua laki2 fikir di usia yang senja ini perempuan rasa kecewa kerana berkongsi anu? Saya rasa wanita lebih kecewa kerana di usia muda dia banyak bekorban keseluruhan masa dan dunianya pada hanya seorang laki2 yang bernama suami. Lebih kecewa apabila ditanya pada suami ,tahukah dia apa makanan kegemaran isterinya selama bertahun2 tinggal sebumbung.Dan jawapan nya tidak. POLIGAMI adalah satu undang2 yang istimewa ,di berikan pada makhluk istimewa atas sebab2 istimewa bukan atas suka2 lakukan sama juga seperti musafir melakukan sholat jamak, khasar dan lain2 .Ada batas dan syarat ditetapkan oleh Allh SWT untuk berpoligami. Kerana kami walau pun kaum yang penyabar juga mempunyai perasaan yang halus dan mudah terguris....tanya saya pada kaum adam apa kamu tidak akan rasa sedih kalau di duakan ,apa kamu tidak akan cemburu pada saingan kamu jika ada.Yang membezakan kita hanya ego dan kudrat kamu. Saya lagi2lah menyanggah kalau dikatakan isterinya redho dan sabar.Sabar yang datang secara rela atau tidak kerana menerima hakikat itu adalah ujian dari ALLAH SWT dan percaya tiap2 satu kejadian ada hikmah nya lalu belajar menahan diri dari terlalu berhiba dan biasanya cuba divert tumpuannya kepada benda lain. Siti Aisyah lagikan cemburu pada Khatijah yang sudah meninggal inikan manusia biasa.Begitu juga dengan isteri Nabi Ibrahim alaihissallam ,Sarah tergamak menghalau Siti Hajar dan Ismail kerana cemburu.Inikan pula wanita biasa.Pernah lihat dua kanak2 kecil bergaduh kerana katanya adik dapat lebih manakala adik kata abang yang dapat lebih....mereka bergaduh bukan kerana habuan mereka kurang tetapi menjurus kepada mahukan lebih perhatian atau kasih sayang. Kononnya mereka yang layak dapat lebih .Barulah naluri mereka puas.Dan saya samakan perbuatan itu dengan naluri isteri. Tapi bak kata pepatah, keras 2 kerak nasi , kena rendam lembutlah dia.Alah bisa tegal biasa ,lama-kelamaan tidak canggung lagi dengan keberadaan orang ketiga. Di bawah ni saya cuba nak pungut sikit sebanyak kata2 dari kawan2 saya yang ber madu TENAGA tu...Persoalan2 kenapa SUSAH sangat nak terima kehadiran orang ketiga mungkin dapat di jelaskan di sini.... DIALOG saya dengan mereka yang terbabit: -Saya suka dengan ungkapan dari kata2 bini kedua macam ni...saya dapat cintanya 100% dan saya tahu madu saya pun dapat 100%....senang cakap dua2 pun masih boleh rasa nikmat yang sama kira ok le tu.(Very positif) -Ini pula statement dari kawan saya yang lain .Dari isteri tua...saya boleh memaafkan tetapi saya tidak boleh melupakan...bila suami nya meninggal dia dah sound madu dia ,kita sekarang dah tak de kena mengena lagi antara satu sama lain (TITIK ! ) -Yang ini Kes isteri no 2 yang tiba2 kematian madunya memberitahu saya dengan girang...saya tak nafikan waktu ini saya rasa lebih gembira.....after a few months onward dia di ceraikan oleh suaminya walaupun anak dah berderet>>>alasan >>>>timing tak betul dan suaminya kahwin lain ,orang gajinya mek Indon. -Ini ungkapan seorang janda yang bercerai kerana suaminya ingin kahwin lagi, kalau saya tak kahwin dengan dia (suami barunya yang juga suami orang) dia tetap akan berkahwin lagi.... -Ini pulak cerita kawan saya yang boleh pergi kemana sama2 dengan madu>>>>katanya pada saya, sekarang ni pun dia dah mula demand nak itu nak ini, mana boleh dulu kita mula2 kahwin pun suami tak mampu nak beli mesin basuh dah masuk anak no 3 baru dapat.Di depan madu dia nampak macam biasa tetapi di belakang dia sempat menjueh dan menyindir....So do you think they are happy living like that? Rumusan saya buat masa ini: yang pelik mengenai perempuan ni.....dia sanggup kahwini suami orang tetapi tidak suka orang mengahwini suaminya.... Ada 3 cara lelaki dapat berpoligami .....Membujuk ,menipu atau mengugut !
Poplar Tree (Uncertainty) -- looks very decorative, talented, not very self-confident, extremely courageous if necessary, needs goodwill and pleasant surroundings, very choosy, often lonely, great animosity, great artistic nature, good organizer, tends to lean toward philosophy, reliable in any situation, takes partnership seriously. Pelik tapi hampir tepat! Especially about uncertainty . Saya selalu BUNTU setiap kali memikirkan cara hendak merealisasi impian yang sebenarnya bukan impianpun tetapi sesuatu yang saya teringin nak buat untuk menguji kemampuan saya.Kadang2 saya rasa saya boleh lakukan tetapi kadang2 saya rasa saya tak ade keistimewaan, tak de kepakaran, kreativiti, bakat, vision atau yang paling beharga iaitu otak yang geliga!(So uncertain of myself) Kalau tenguk pada tarikh lahir saya pada 5 August saya jatuh di bawah Poplar Tree >>> Poplar Tree (Uncertainty) -- looks very decorative, talented, not very self-confident, extremely courageous if necessary, needs goodwill and pleasant surroundings, very choosy, often lonely, great animosity, great artistic nature, good organizer, tends to lean toward philosophy, reliable in any situation, takes partnership seriously. Saya memang minat seni,seni tari,seni lukis,seni ukir dan lain2 masaalahnya saya kurang ilmu.Cuma ada Higher LCC dan Free Style Flowers Arrangmnt Cert. Saya boleh melukis potret walau pun tidak 100% serupa tetapi suami kata hampir serupa sampaikan dia suggest saya lukis muka2 pemimpin dan cuba jual..... Saya akui kalau saya praktis selalu mungkin hasilnya boleh jadi perfect.Baru2 ni di Bintang Walk saya kagum tenguk sudah ramai pelukis2 jalanan melukis potret pelancung dan sekeping potret atas kertas lukisan biasa bayarannya 50 ringgit.Tetapi saya tak berminat jadi pelukis potret.Ada talent tapi tak de minat.Saya lebih suka jadi florist kalau di beri pilihan lain. Kalau tanya saya...sebab saya wanita dan saya memang suka lihat barang2 yang nampak cantik jadi saya punya idea ialah menjual aksessori wanita(see im very decorative) .Baru2 ni saya beli buku berkenaan jahit sulaman labuci oleh Rosita Jaffar.Jahitannya sungguh indah. Bagi saya menjahit baju kurung bukan nya susah , cuma saya dah berhenti menjahit sejak anak perempuan saya masuk sekolah menengah iaitu hampir 7 atau 8 tahun dulu.Sebab lain ialah mesin electrolux saya rosak,saya malas repair kerana mahal dan tak tahu dimana kedai electrolux setelah berpindah ke tempat baru.Kedua pendapatan suami bertambah dan mungkin dah mampu membeli pakaian yang siap dan ketiga saya semakin malas menjahit. Sekarang dalam usia yang lanjut ini saya ingin buka kedai baju kurung bersulam/labuci dan di padankan dengan aksessori wanita yang sesuai dan saya mahu semua wanita sekurang2nya setahun sekali nampak indah atau saya ingin galakkan isteri2 supaya sentiasa nampak cantik walaupun hanya duduk di rumah baik waktu siang atau malam.Saya mahu adakan skim mudah bayaran bagi wanita2 yang berpotensi membayar dan menggalakkan jadi ahli seperti kedai avon tu.Bezanya di Avon kena bayar cash. Saya teringin lakukan nya tetapi seperti Pokok saya kata....saya lacks of confident...saya perlu ada goodwill dan pleasants surroundings termasuk sape2 yang boleh beri saya galakan.At certain times kalau betul2 terdesak baru saya ada keberanian, contohnya bila suami tak de baru saya terpaksa lakukan sendiri...atau bila marah dengan suami baru saya berani pergi jauh sikit...kalau tak saya lebih selesa berlingkar dalam rumah saja. Saya perlukan business partner yang mempunyai minat yang sama(suami tak minat)....mungkin saya belum jumpa lagi.Saya tak ramai kawan(very choosy) tetapi kalau saya berkawan....ia akan kekal.Saya memang jenis yang memilih kawan...hanya yang sesuai saja yang akan kekal dan menjadi tempat rujukan saya tetapi kawan2 yang saya anggap reliable semuanya jauh2.Sorang di Serawak,sorang di Melaka A Famosa ,Sorang di Sg Buluh dan sorang lagi di Kelang.Jadi betullah saya often lonely. Apa yang saya tulis di atas secara tak langsung mengesahkan birthday tree saya hampir 100 % accurate dengan watak saya dan ia juga di sahkan 99.9 % accurate oleh salah sorang kawan blog saya .Tentang philosophy pula yes memang betul....saya ada falasafah dan memegang pada falasafah cuma banyak orang tak tahu. Saya akui kalau dulu saya hanya refer pada12 bintang atau zodiak dari bulan Jan hingga Dec.Ia kurang tepat dengan karakter saya. Ada lagi yang lebih tepat iaitu tahun Cina (lunar year) yang gunakan karekter binatang.Ia boleh di jadikan panduan kerana sifat2 haiwan yang boleh di kaitkan dengan sifat2 manusia yang berlainan antara satu sama lain.Seperti manusia , binatang juga ada yang jenis penyayang,pemalu,garang ,nakal dan lain2. Dan kali ini ada lagi satu kaedah lain iaitu melalui Pokok di mana tarikh lahir anda jatuh...so sape2 nak cuba sila baca blog Didiz's Rendezvour. Dan sape2 yang pandai buat family planning tu cuba2 le cari tarikh yang bagus supaya anak lahir di bawah rimbunan pokok yang BAGUS .Itupun kalau anda percaya ia 100% betul!
Pada hari Ahad lepas kami berlegar2 di kawasan Puduraya.Kami bukan orang yang menetap diKL jadi peluang ke Petaling Street tidak pernah kami abaikan. Di celah2 gerai yang berjual ada sebuah kedai yang khusuh menjual batu2 .Penjualnya rata2 datang dari Tibet yang dulunya tak tahu bercakap BM. Paling hujung ada kedai yang di miliki oleh seorang wanita Melayu yang berkahwin dengan orang Tibet. Tak tahu kenapa saya boleh habiskan beberapa ratus ringgit di sini kerana anggapan saya aksesori seperti,rantai,gelang dan lain2 masih murah dari di Mall. Petaling street sekarang nampak bersih tidak lagi sesak macam dulu nak berjalan pun bergesel ponggong,saya rasa sedikit selesa. Satu lagi CD2 porno pun dah tak kelihatan walaupun mungkin ada tektik lain,saya tak tahu.Saya dan suami tahu ada kawan2nya tak boleh terima keberadaan kami di sana..... Rupa2 nya baru saya tahu kenapa mereka terkejut . Saya pun terkejut besar apabila perniagaan Daging Haram (Melacur) di buat depan mata saya sendiri.Kalu kita berjalan di luar ,Petaling Street nampak macam pasar biasa tetapi apabila saya kebelakang dan masuk kedalam kawasan kedai untuk menyejukkan badan baru saya tahu keadaan yang sebenarnya. Mula2 hairan juga bagaimana perempuan Cina yang berpakaian macam budak2 boleh berbual dengan perempuan India sedangkan tadi dia baru berbual dengan perempuan Melayu yang memakai baju kurung.Saya sangka mereka penjual atau pembeli di situ...rupa2nya satu kapal. Cara rundingan amat senang ,perempuan2 yang berbagai2 bangsa cuma angkat jari pada lelaki yang lalu lalang. Kalau laki2 tu menghampiri mungkin ada tawar menawar berlaku. Dan kalau setuju pelacur akan bangun dan bergerak dahulu kemudian di ikuti oleh pelanggan.Kami cuba ikut pasangan mula2 tetapi hilang macam tu saja.Kemudian kami nampak antara kedai jual alat2 talipon dan kedai kasut ada anak tangga, hanya perlu berdiri di situ 5 minit saja dan kami dapat lihat macam2 rupa manusia yang turun naik.... So di sini kalau lah si IGP mengarahkan 4 orang dari 4 000 polis yang berkawal di Dataran Merdeka dan memBERSIHkan kawasan pelacuran ini alangkan lebih baik.......tetapi mungkin betul juga macam Ah yap cakap kalau tak ada pelacuran nanti makin ramai pula perogol2 antara bangsa dan professional yang rogol rakyat Malaaysia yang kesian kalau mereka rogol anak2 kita!
10/11 PUKUL 3 PETANG. Kami tak sempat ke sana. Plan nak naik bas ekspress pukul 11 pagi,turun di Serdang kaemudian ambil kereta dari anak dan terus ke Dataran Merdeka.
This poem i found in 4evermuslima.blogspot.com and its so beautiful to read.Hijab PoemThis is a poem i found in one of the forums i was browsing the author is known. I simply loved this poem and had to post it. Hope you enjoy it :DWhat do you see when you look at me Do you see someone limited, or someone free? All some people can do is just look and stare Simply because they can't see my hair. Others think I am controlled and uneducated They think that I am limited and un-liberated. They are so thankful that they are not me Because they would like to remain 'free.' Well free isn't exactly the word I would've used Describing women who are cheated on and abused. They think that I do not have opinions or voice They think that being hooded isn't my choice. They think that the hood makes me look caged That my husband or dad are totally outraged. All they can do is look at me in fear And in my eye there is a tear. Not because I have been stared at or made fun of But because people are ignoring the One up Above. On the Day of Judgment they will be the fools Because they were too ashamed to play by their own rules. Maybe the guys won't think I am a cutie But at least I am filled with more inner beauty. See I have declined from being a guy's toy Because I won't let myself be controlled by a boy. Real men are able to appreciate my mind And aren't busy looking at my behind. Hooded girls are the ones really helping the Muslim cause The role that we play definitely deserves applause. I will be recognized because I am smart and bright And because some people are inspired by my sight. The smart ones are attracted by my tranquility In the back of their mind they wish they were me. We have the strength to do what we think is right Even if it means putting up a life-long fight. You see we are not controlled by a miniskirt and tight shirt We are given only respect, and never treated like dirt. So you see, we are the ones that are free and liberated We are not the ones that are sexually terrorized and violated. We are the ones that are free and pure We're free of STD's that have no cure. So when people ask you how you feel about the hood Just sum it up by saying 'Baby, its all good!'
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